I started blogging in February 2003 and have made it habit to blog almost everyday. This page is where I note down my thoughts, opinions and critique of almost everything. Please note that this is an adult blog and would require the reader to be thick-skinned. Oh, and some of the stuff here may be gay related so proceed at your own risk. No refund given for offence taken.
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This year, it's on 15 May 2010, a Saturday from 5:00pm to 6:30pm. The theme this year is "Focusing on Our Families" and here's a very moving video of Jamie and her family.
Okay, this is a bit passed sell-by date. But some comments and articles decrying the uncivil atmosphere at the recent AWARE EGM reminded me of something similar I had witnessed years ago.
I was once a member of this mega church located somewhere in the prime district of Orchard Road.
After the previous minister left at the end of his contract, a new one was brought in as his replacement. All was going well; he was vibrant (though not young), filled with enthusiasm and brought a much lacking passion back to the church. The young came back in droves, brought back by those who were there all this while. Everyone was filled with the fire of the spirit (I can't believe I just used that term).
Wow... church activities really shot through the roof. Church camps, bible studies, musicals, fellowships, prayer meetings, etc. all saw record attendance and involvement.
And mind you, this was a "conservative" non-charismatic/Pentecostal type church which does not practise faith healing and speaking in tongues. Meaning, a church that is supposed to be more straitlaced and sedate, hence, supposedly lacking in passion. In short, the church was transformed to something no one thought was possible.
Yup, my life was centred on the church then. I was there practically every day after school on top of the usual Saturdays and Sundays.
One fine day, a bunch of church leaders decided that this minister had to go. I don't really know the reason why (and I still don't), it's just that they had enough of him and his ways. I was too young then to know the politics that was going on behind the closed doors of the leadership meetings.
What I did know was that the leader who had rejuvenated the church was suddenly fired for no apparent reason.
And like a headless chicken, the church was left running around in circles with no one knowing what was happening.
Of course things didn't go the way according to plan. Members demanded an EGM to find out what was happening and voice their opinions. Lines were drawn and enemies made. Even I got into fierce disagreements with my mother (who I saw as siding the other camp) and my sister who couldn't be bothered and felt (wisely I may add) that I should stay uninvolved.
Gosh, the EGM was the most raucous I had ever seen. I don't remember booing and jeering, but I do remember shouting matches, interruptions one after another, quoting of bible verses against each other, banging of tables and pews, and a whole bunch of other unpleasantries.
As a young member of that church, I was extremely discombobulated by the situation. The church that formed the centre of my life was in disarray, its head beheaded.
In the end, the leadership got its way and the minister was sent packing. The church as a result was split with one section leaving to form their own outside of the original denomination.
As far I know, enmity made then remains to this day. Even though they may speak of loving each other, their actions (or inaction) speaks otherwise.
Looking back, I can confidently say that each party saw themselves as the righteous one and the other threatening the unity of Christ's body. Who was right? Who was wrong? I don't know and I don't bother anymore. That is a past that I had exorcised and thrown into a bottomless pit.
So what's the point of this post? Well, it's more of an exercise of recollection for me on one hand, and on the other, to point out that religious EGMs can be as uncivil as secular ones when passions flare and everyone felt they had a lot at stake in the outcome.
By now, everyone in Singapore is aware of the second part of the hostile takeover of AWARE saga.
Smarting from their defeat, a group of likeminded people (parents and others) who are more or less allied to the ideas of Thio Su-Mien, Josie Lau and company have bombarded MOE with allegations about AWARE's Comprehensive Sexuality Education (CSE) "promoting" homosexuality, pre-martial sex, etc. by the mere mention of them in neutral terms.
Neutral because the course is supposed to give students the facts AND encouraged them to think about actions and consequences.
But knowing how "some people" operate, they chose to take certain lines from the material out of context, blow it out of proportion and go "LOOK!! SEE!! AWARE is promoting homosexuality, pre-martial sex, etc. by not using negative terms against it!!"
It has even spilt over to JC General Paper (GP) lessons, which is kind of stupid and sad considering that in GP lessons, students are made to think through and analyse topics of the day. These include terrorism, religious fundamentalism, etc. etc.
The main point is to get them to think. But some paranoid and overprotective parents are so afraid that the mere mention and discussion of homosexuality will turn their JC kids gay. Gosh... I guess there should be a lot of new terrorists and religious fundies in JC by now.
This whole episode shows the absurdity of Singapore's education and parents' expectations. First we complain that our kids and university graduates don't know how to think, analyse, write properly and have knowledge and opinions about current issues of the day. Then we scream in horror when teachers try to equip them with the skills necessary to do so.
I mean like what do we expect GP teachers to do? Discuss less controversial topics like water desalination, COE prices and state of canteen food?
But parents being parents will always see their children as kids who need to be protected and guided regardless of how old they are. Not realising that kids are way much smarter than we give them credit for. They do have an opinion and they don't take everything at face value.
And as for the CSE programme, if they don't get their knowledge from school with the right tools to make informed and responsible decisions, guess where they are going turn to?
The internet of course!
And that should worry parents much more than CSE and GP teachers discussing "controversial" topics. Because if parents have actually been on the 'net, they should know that nothing there is regulated. Information, misinformation, hard core pornography and all that would turn their gut inside out is available to all who search for them.
Without the necessary knowledge and with misinformation from the 'net and hear-say from their peers who may be just as ignorant as them, one shouldn't be surprised if they start experimenting with disastrous results.
Ignorance or innocence, your choice.
Anyway, I think this post by a GP teacher who is in the know more than me has said more than I could. It was forwarded to me by a friend and I have posted it on my "Stolen Goods" blog (with full credit). Check it out here.
Some of you may know that the former new EXCO spent a total of $90,000 within a month. AWARE's annual expenditure is around $200,000 and any expenditure of above $20,000 requires the consent of the general assembly, which unfortunately the new EXCO did not obtain.
This of course puts their operation and programmes in jeopardy. To help raise funds for AWARE, a concerned member (or members) have printed t-shirts with nifty and hilarious quotes from the EGM for sale. Check them out. They are going at S$29.90 per piece. 70% of the price will go to AWARE. Err... I mean the AWARE without the COOS cabal lah.
These are some of my favourites. Click on the pictures to see the rest and place your orders.
Buy one, two, heck! Buy all designs!
And if the Ts are too loud, get a discreet button to pin on your bags or whatever lah. These are going at S$11.50 for a set of three.
Well, that's it. The 5th column-elected new exco of AWARE has resigned in the wake of a no-confidence motion and a new one unaffiliated with the Anglican Church of our Saviour (COOS) or Thio Su-Mien (TSM) has been elected.
All this saga and waste of time and money brought on by Christian extremists who are way too fixated on one "bogeyman".
Bogeymen or cause célèbre is nothing new. Political and religious movements have used it countless of times throughout history to rally their adherents (ie: The Spanish Inquisition, Salem witch trials, burning of witches and perceived heretics, etc etc). Of course in modern day Singapore, it is too politically sensitive and incorrect to use another religion (like Islam in some Western countries) as their bogeyman. So what do TSM and her COOS fellow members do? They learn from their American co-religionist and target homosexuality. Delusional, they sincerely believe there is a hidden gay agenda with a gay mafia in Singapore.
Hypocritically I might add. Since there are countless things the bible denounced and yet they don't seem to have an issue with. For example, remarriage after divorce is adultery according to Jesus and adulterers do not inherit the kingdom of god. Yet we don't seem to hear TSM or Pastor Derek Kong having a field day with that.
But you know what's really sad? It's how AWARE got dragged into TSM and COOS's "spiritual warfare". Yes, they call their fight "Spiritual Warfare". "Holy War" chope by another religion lah.
As far as AWARE and everyone (everyone except you know who) is concern, they are a feminist organisation dedicated to the fight for equality and non-discrimination of females regardless or race, religion, age, language, cultural, financial and sexual background. Since their establishment in 1985, they have advocated, taught, researched, conducted workshops, counselled, etc. etc. Great work if you asked me. Of course some may disagree.
But never were they ever a "homosexual" organisation. The bone of TSM and COOS's contention is just a very small part of their comprehensive sexual education programme for schools which covered homosexuality in neutral terms (neither for nor against) for about 5 minutes or so.
Somehow or other, this was taken out of context by TSM and COOS and blown way out of proportion. All of a sudden, a feminist organisation became a "homosexual one" and fell into the holy gun sights of the extremists. And before they knew it, a fifth column was secretly installed and their members voted into the exco.
I don't blame the original AWARE for this. Never in their right mind did they think that a religious group in Singapore (of all places) won't do such a thing and never did they think they would be a target. I mean they are a feminist organisation dedicated to issues concerning women in Singapore, nothing too controversial about that right?
And who would have thought that a religious group that prided itself on being on the moral high ground would have resorted to such underhanded and distasteful (though legal) hostile takeover tactics usually practiced by greedy corporate raiders of the 80s.
Well, the battle is won for inclusiveness but the war is not over. The extremist likes of TSM and COOS will continue, just like comic book villains, always in the background but showing up once in a while to fight the heroes of the Marvel and DC comic universe.
The upside to this whole fiasco? It has exposed the face of Christian fundies in our midst and has also shown the whole of Singapore that religious extremism is not the sole monopoly of one religion and not all extremists are locked away by ISD.
As for AWARE, I hope the indignation, outrage and passion shown by old and new(est) members will translate into more zest and groundbreaking good work by them.
As for the rest of us, I think after this incident, not just AWARE but all civil societies and NGOs in Singapore should start looking into and tightening up their constitution to prevent another hostile takeover by outsiders.
It's sad, but everyone will have to go one day. And Joshua Benjamin Jeyaretnam (JBJ as he is popularly known) passed away this morning from heart failure at the age of 82.
This man who was much maligned and attacked by LKY and PAP never gave up the fight for his belief in a more just and equitable Singapore.
He first won a seat in parliament in 1981 and broke PAP's monopoly on power. But trust LKY to find ways to unseat an opponent and this he did in 1986 when JBJ was found guilty of making a false declaration of his party's accounts and fined. This saw him removed from parliament under existing laws. And on top of that, he was also barred from practising law. Well I'm sure most Singaporeans learnt the true meaning of the word "vindictiveness" from this sordid affair. You not only remove your political opponent but remove his means of earning a living.
His second term in parliament was as a non-constituency MP from 1997 to 2001. But this tenure saw him sued by Goh Chok Tong and ten others for defamation. This action broke him financially and he was declared a bankrupt and hence ineligible for parliament.
But trust JBJ not to lie down and go away with a whimper. He continued speaking out and working to clear his bankruptcy, which he did in 2007. As of 2008 this year, he helped form the Reform Party and vowed to return to parliament by the next election.
Unfortunately for him and Singapore, he never got the chance to. He left us with the memory of a man who fought the good fight and never gave up despite the animosity of his political opponents and the general apathy of most Singaporeans.
I think it takes a special breed of people to be able to do that and not succumb to all the negativity, convictions, bankruptcy, etc. I am sure most people would rather have the fawning sycophancy that LKY gets.
Rest in peace JBJ and my thoughts are with your family.
Hopefully someone might be brave enough (or some would say foolhardy enough) to take up your standard and continue your mission. Singapore sure needs it.
Of that generation of politicians, it seems LKY and Chiam See Tong are the only ones left. And Chiam is younger than LKY. Who's next?
1 April 2008 - UBS announces a further writedown of US$19 billion due to the abovementioned exposure and seeks a further US$15 billion of capital infusion.
The total writedown has hit US$37.4 billion, making it the biggest writedown by any bank since the credit crunch began.
Question: Did our government's investment vehicle made the right choice when it saw UBS's initial capital plea as a chance to get a 9% stake in the bank? Or was it betting on the wrong horse? Or is this the lowest it can go before bouncing back and proving GIC's investment choice correct?
A bit scary considering that GIC is investing Singapore's vast reserves. But then again, US$10 billion is a drop in the bowl when our official reserves is US$172 billion as of February this year, making us number 8 in the world.
Let's hope UBS doesn't go under and make GIC's investment a fiasco. However I do wonder whether the asset managers were aware that there could be further writedowns or were certain facts either withheld by UBS or were totally unknown by them at that time. In which case, how diligent was GIC's due diligence?
I guess this should provide our MPs new materials to base their questions on when parliament next sits on 21 April 2008.
And in other news, an outline of a deal has almost been reached for Zimbabwe's President Robert Mugabe to step down. The opposition says it won Saturday's general elections.
I just saw this post that was dated 17 January 2008, the last post for this blogger as an NSF. A recollection from a guy who is about to ORD. Don't really know what to make of it. Saddened and infuriated at the same time. The price of his citizenship is too high. Maybe not as high as those who lost their lives during NS or ICT, but still too costly.
I know it's very long, but just read the whole thing:
When I saw his picture on the silent gym TV last night, I thought he had died or was executed or something like that and didn't give much thought to it. Imagine my surprise when I read on BBC News today that he had escaped.
This leader of Jemaah Islamiyah (JI) is alleged to have been a part of plans to attack the US Embassy along Napier Road, the American Club along Scotts Road, MINDEF HQ at Bukit Gombak and the Education Ministry building in North Buona Vista Drive. He was also said to have been the mastermind behind plans to hijack an airplane in Bangkok and crash it into Changi airport (http://www.straitstimes.com/Free/Story/STIStory_211177.html). These are some majorly serious charges and obviously he's someone who could really be intent on causing serious damage, carnage and mayhem.
Apparently Mas, who was born in Indonesia, supposedly has the power to hypnotise people. As a friend said, "Indos strong religious ones tend to have these inner unorthodox power". Whether you believe that is true or not is up to you. However it's not surprising as pre-Islamic belief in the supernatural is still very strong in the Indonesian archipelago. How interesting, politics and terrorism with an added dash of the supernatural.
Well, it looks like someone or some people from ISD is going to get canned pretty soon. I wonder if he had help (internal or external) with his escape or he simply found an opening and took advantage of it. I can just imagine a getaway car waiting for him with some ladies in the niqab (which covers the entire body and face) and a spare one for him to put on.
The police and SAF soldiers are now in the midst of an island wide manhunt for him. I don't know whether they will succeed or not. He'll most probably be hiding out in the home of a supporter or sympathiser before making an explosive debut. Or if what one of my friends said is right, he has probably crossed the waters to either Johor or the Riau islands where his "brothers" are waiting to receive him with open arms.
I seriously doubt if JI has been disbanded. They were probably weakened by the string of arrests and was lying dormant all this while. But now that Mas their leader is out, things might start to change. And not for the better I'm afraid.
If there was a proper opposition in Singapore's parliament, the minister of home affairs and the PM will definitely get seriously grilled like they do in the UK when some shit (like the lost of CDs containing sensitive government data) hits the fan. In Singapore, they will probably get a slap on their hands with no calls for their resignation.
Ezra directed me to this video by a Fahmi Reza of Malaysia entitled "Sepuluh Tahun Sebelum Merdeka" (10 years before independence). Looking at the current state of affairs and relations between the races in Malaysia (what with the recent protest in KL by Malaysian Indians), this show strikes me as rather sad. Sad, because of what might have been.
On one hand, you had the (then) somewhat pro-British UMNO with a rather limited constitution for the Malayan Federation (enforced in 1948) that saw Malaya continuing as a British protectorate with not much political rights. And on the other, you have the People's Constitution drafted by a group of left-leaning parties under the banner of PUTERA-AMCJA that was so much more progressive.
Not only did this constitution demanded independence, it gave everyone equal political rights and equal citizenship, provided for an inter-racial council that was tasked to screen and filter out racially discriminating laws and policies, and surprisingly, created a new nationality called "Melayu" that would apply to everyone regardless of race. This last bit was whole-heartedly endorsed and accepted by Tan Cheng Lock (representing the Chinese community) with no questions asked.
I really wonder what Malaysia (or maybe even Malaya) would be like today if PUTERA-AMCJA had succeeded in getting through their constitution.
But as anyone can tell, the People's Constitution was unfortunately consigned to the wastebasket of history. And not only that, the British jailed or banished members of the PUTERA-AMCJA under the pretext of fighting communism.
There's so much that could be said about what could have been, but I guess it's too late for that now. And perhaps, I guess HINDRAF has a point when they wanted to sue the British government for their historical complicity in the present plight of the Malaysian Indians.
Anyway, if you have the time, do watch the show below. It has been very enlightening for me, even as a Singaporean.
While a lot of people have either been in a state of shock or been mourning over the loss of five young lives snatched away for no particular reason over the weekend, I received a copy of "The Act" (published by AfA) and read one of the editorials which affected me quite a bit:
Every week I meet and counsel at least two to three people diagnosed with HIV. Most of them younger in age as time go by since I started my HIV work several years ago. The record for me thus far is a 16 year old boy who was recently diagnosed with HIV. He passed me a letter to give to his parents in the event he was to die before them. In it was his apology for what he felt was the shame that he had brought to his family and his apology for getting infected. He could not bring himself to tell them he has HIV as he was afraid of their rejection. While the country comes up with more draconian laws to 'stop' the epidemic in Singapore, the state of stigma and discrimination is reaching an all time high. We seem to be far away from universal access and a better system of care and support for people living with HIV. Besides the law that prevents health care workers from carelessly disclosing their patients' HIV status, the government has not come up with any other regulations to prevent discrimination against people living with HIV.
This issue of the ACT is devoted to people living with HIV. Their lives are our business and their suffering and their pain are our pain as well. It is not just the job of AfA or the health care workers to lend them the shoulder to cry on but for the society as a whole to get out of their comfort zone and understand their plight in a manner that is real, sincere and tangible.
However, no policy or law can alone combat HIV/AIDS related discrimination. The fear and prejudice that lies at the core of the HIV/AIDS discrimination needs to be tackled at the community and national levels. A more enabling environment needs to be created to increase the visibility of people with HIV/AIDS as a 'normal' part of any society. In the future, the task is to confront the fear based messages and biased social attitudes, in order to reduce the discrimination and stigma of people who are living with HIV
I hold on to this letter and I pray for a time in the near future where he will come to me as say that it is no longer necessary cause he has told his family and they are supportive of him and will be there for him for many more healthy years to come.
Raphael Meyer Guest Editor
I too have had my fair share of positive results during my time as a volunteer. And the record for me was a boy no older than 18 and obviously not in NS yet. I still remember him from our short chat - he was well spoken, plays a musical instrument and dressed neatly; obviously a son from a middle class family probably living in a private apartment or house.
After I had completed testing the person after him and was in the midst of placing the slip on the counter top, I noticed the dreaded red line on one of the slip. Immediately, I knew it was him. Even though the result was obvious, I was hoping beyond hope that the control line wouldn't appear and hence, make the test strip defective.
Unfortunately, the control line did appear 15 minutes later. I was almost on the verge of tears when I informed the supervisor who would be taking over the case.
When the boy came in to get his confirmatory test done, his face was expressionless. I didn't know what was going through his mind or if anything was going through it at all. I guess he was in a state of shock.
He was so young. And while I know that being HIV+ is not a death sentence, I was wondering how he was going to cope. How is he going to tell his parents? How long can he keep it a secret before they find out when he goes for his FFI before enlistment or when he needs to start on his medication?
The trend is obvious. More young men are getting tested positive. They are usually in their late teens to mid 20s. I keep wondering why this is happening. Are they getting the right information? Or is the information denied to them because of some authority figure's opinion that talking about sex will only encourage the young to experiment?
I know the government is taking the approach of abstinence. But at what cost? Even if we harp and nag about abstaining from sex, we can't ignore the fact that a certain percentage will still experiment. And without the necessary information on safe sex, should we be surprise that they get infected.
This is Singapore's head in the sand. In our self-righteousness, we stigmatise certain categories of the population and criminalise homosexual sex (while not pursuing the letter of the law) and thus preventing ourselves from reaching out to those most at risk - the young Singaporeans - because of that same judgemental and self-righteous attitude.
We may make it an offence for those who are unaware of their HIV status and unknowingly infect another person. But this does not prevent the young and ignorant from experimenting and engaging in high risk activities.
It is a sad fact that some people in the establishment assumes that any activities relating to HIV prevention is a cover for "promoting homosexual behaviour". If this continues, we should not be surprise to see the level of infection shoot up and become an official epidemic.
So what have our country done to reach out to the general population? Nothing much considering how some PAP ministers (I shan't name names here) still believe that HIV is caused by "the homosexuals". Hence, they do the only thing they are best at, blame "the homosexuals" and pass more laws.
But unfortunately, laws can only do so much, and it's only after the fact. I am afraid that with the current attitude of our ignorant technocratic ministers, I will see more and more teenagers, male and female, getting tested positive.
Who do we blame and prosecute then? And what is the use of pointing fingers when it can never reverse time and un-infect the teen.
Meanwhile, the rest of Singapore will always see it as someone else's problem. Until that someone else is themselves or someone in their family. Then, it's too late.
By now, the news about Alfian's "abusive" email to Thio Li-Ann is known by practically everyone who reads the English papers. Contrary to what some people assume, that email was written months before the repeal 377a campaign was even initiated. And from what I read, it may be rude but I won't consider it harassment. After all, "fucked up" is a general term that has been used by all and sundry to describe someone (either in the first or third person) as dysfunctional or messed up in the head.
To play it out further, she has taken on the role of the aggrieved victim who is above such things. However instead of ending it there, she wrote and had her letter published on the Straits Times with Alfian's e-mail address, obviously intending to make him the target for her lobby group.
Considering the impolite and slanderous terms and accusations she levelled at all gay men, it is rather artful of her to demand civility in the debate when she was the one who launched the first salvo.
"When the Religious Right (and this includes Thio) are out to bludgeon me psychologically, socially and politically, they don't deserve respect or civility from me. Nor from Alfian and thousands, thousands more."
And if one can't take the heat, then one should get the hell out of the kitchen. One shouldn't launch attacks on others and then cry foul when a return volley comes your way.
Anyway, what's the big deal about someone pissing on your grave? When they bury you after you are well and truly dead, it is usually with earth that has been mixed with manure (as fertiliser). And as we all know, manure is generally made from cow faeces. I would think urine is the lesser of the "evil". And furthermore, you can consider it a favour as it will help the surrounding vegetation grow better so as to beautify your final resting place.
Interestingly enough, Thio had the audacity to bring up the spectre of a defamation suit against Alfian. In law, defamation is the communication of a statement that makes a false claim, expressly stated or implied to be factual, that may harm the reputation of an individual, business, product, group, government or nation (as quoted from Wikipedia). I think she brought more disrepute on herself without the assistance of Alfian. "Hatemongering" and "vicious crusades against sexual minorities"? Guilty as charged. No need Alfian's email to tell us that.
I did a trawl through the blogosphere today, and I noted with great interest that all post which mentioned her by name is nothing but negative. And mind you, a lot of them are written by straight people and some are... how shall I say it... not nice at all. Not only was her speech in parliament criticised, but her views and her actions thus far.
One post that caught my eye is by a Mollymeek who sees the hypocrisy of Thio's hope that the "House joins" her "in deploring these malicious attacks which also assault academic freedom". (underscore is mine)
Anyway, true to form, Talkingcock has come up with a hilariously interesting and productive way to put piss on her grave to a better and more environmentally friendly use. Click on the picture below for the full story. FUNNY!
On the same topic, a "La nausée" has written a post that shows up the ridiculousness of her sensitivity to such emails. But more important than that, he has highlighted something that has escaped almost everyone's attention: the clear and present danger of Thio's assertion "that religion should not be excluded from public policy debates, and that to do so would be undemocratic".
Now why is it dangerous?
Along with the penal code overhaul, section 298 (which makes it a crime to speak ill of any religion) was beefed up.
Of course the intent of this (as stated by Senior Minister of State Ho Peng Kee on 22nd October 2007) is to "criminalize the deliberate promotion by someone of enmity, hatred or ill-will between different racial and religious groups on grounds of race or religion".
So is there any other implication?
Yes. To put it simply, the playing field is not level. While religious groups can hide behind this act and use their perceived religious righteousness to attack secular beliefs, ideals, or policies. No one can attack their views because to do so is an offence which might see you in jail.
Let's use the campaign to repeal section 377a as an example. They can assert publicly that all homosexuals are the same as paedophiles, necrophiles, zoophiles, etc. But that law prevents us from attacking their religious views that's fundamental to these fallacious beliefs. They may rant and rave in parliament that homosexuality is a lifestyle choice and that all homosexuals can change "with the grace of god". But if we were to say that their views are erroneous and most homosexual did not choose to be one, they can very well claim we are "wounding" their religious views and thus guilty according to that section.
So if we are not allowed to criticise them or their religious views, then it is only fair that they are not allowed to publicly air those same views and criticisms of government policies and other people's "lifestyle" be they straight or gay. Because if things go the way Thio wants it, then she and her cabal can very well attempt to hijack public policy debates and no one can say anything in dissent.
Now this is the real slippery slope if you ask me. But it will be interesting to see how our government manages this, especially when there are a few competing religious lobby groups trying to influence public policies.
Before I end this post, I would like to bring your attention to yet another straight person (a female) writing on the 377a issue. Though I disagree with her view that homosexuality is a lifestyle choice (probably heard it too many times from the likes of Thio that she thinks it is), I do like the line of reasoning she took on the "we are not ready" excuse. Hers is the first I've read on this issue. Check it out on "absolute-ly missy".
Some interesting legal questions posed by respected legal academics from NUS in a new book entitled "Lives in the Law" that honours three eminent (now retired) professors in Singapore's legal academia.
Hmmm... Someone's opinion seems to be missing though. :-)
Click the link below for some hypothetical situations and issues which may very well arise in the near future.
This is a personal story by the son of man who was very much involved in politics during the period of the expulsion of Singapore from the Malayan (then known) federation. Perhaps this might help remind our leaders, especially LKY, why a lot of Singaporeans choose to remain silent.
There is this theory that force of habit somehow becomes part of the genetic makeup of the future generations. Hence, affecting how they behave instinctively. Maybe our forefathers' force of habit is now the instinctive behaviour of our current batches of local undergraduates. Of course we cannot forget upbringing, academic and learning culture, and the possible cost (material, emotional and mental) factor.
This post is more than just about politics back then. It's also a loving memorial to a man's father who had just passed on, a father who despite all semblances of calmness and equanimity hides a secret past; a past that his son should be proud of. Though it's sad to see his father's fire eventually extinguished by political expediency at a cost to the state of Singapore's current and possibly future generations.
My friend brought my attention to two rather interesting things to read on the web today.
One is an article in the New York Times about how the conservative evangelical churches and lobby group in the US seem to be changing directions. Among some of the reasons put forward is the retirement or passing on of the politically inclined leaders like Falwell and Dobson, while at the same time the evangelical congregants have grown tired of the endless political tirade of their spiritual leaders at the expense of their personal faith and growth.
...In the past, Hybels has scrupulously avoided criticizing conservative Christian political figures like Falwell or Dobson. But in my talk with him, he argued that the leaders of the conservative Christian political movement had lost touch with their base. "The Indians are saying to the chiefs, 'We are interested in more than your two or three issues,' " Hybels said. "We are interested in the poor, in racial reconciliation, in global poverty and AIDS, in the plight of women in the developing world"...
..."I thought in my enthusiasm," he (Rev. Gene Carlson) told me with a smile, "that somehow we could band together and change things politically and everything will be fine." But the closing of Dr. Tiller's clinic was fleeting. Electing Christian politicians never seemed to change much. "When you mix politics and religion," Carlson said, "you get politics."
In more recent battles, Carlson has hung back. On the Sunday before the referendum on a state constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage, Carlson reminded his congregation that homosexuality was hardly the only form of sex the Bible condemned. Any extramarital sex is a sin, he told his congregation, so they should not point fingers.
"We wouldn't want to exclude some group because we thought their sin was worse than ours," Carlson told me with a laugh...
It's a pretty long article, but worth the read to get a sense of how the religious-political landscape of the US is changing. And though some might argue otherwise, it also has possible political ramifications in Singapore considering how some churches here seem to be aping the political stance of their co-religionists in the US.
Another article (or rather a blog post) I read is this "Reverse Redacting Thio Li Ann" which attempts to draw parallels between her speech in parliament and her article in the Straits Times with "The Homosexual Rights Agenda: Reframing the Debate" published on "The Road to Emmaus: A School of Judeo-Christian Apologetics".
Pretty interesting I must say. I think it helps people see where she is coming from and where she gets (or who she shares) some of her ideas (with).
Which brings to mind what I wrote about her in my post dated 19 January 2007:
..."There're a whole myriad of factors, from the treatment of maids to education issues, to political liberalisation, free speech issues, human rights and women's rights."
Promote human and women's rights but deny equal treatment to gays and lesbians? How schizophrenic is that. Or has reactionary and conservative religion contaminated her more progressive and liberal views towards such basic rights as equality of everyone regardless of sex, age, race, sexuality, religion, economic class, etc.
I wouldn't be surprised if she'll use this new platform to sprout and pursue her homophobic agenda. Or maybe that was the PAP's idea when they selected her as a new NMP. Then again, those who make the loudest noise usually have something to hide. Remember the former Pastor Ted Haggard from the Nov 2006 scandal?...
Thank god for people like NMP Siew Kum Hong and the PAP MPs who spoke up against the retention of 377a. At least there's some people in the house who could speak in opposition to her.
I don't know, but maybe I might have been wrong about it being PAP's idea to have her chosen as an NMP because of her homophobia. Then again, that was pure speculation on my part.
I think one of the more interesting things about the recent campaign to repeal Section 377a is the amount of pro-repeal blog posts and articles written not just by gays, but by straight people who are not personally affected (so I assume) by this piece of archaic British colonial-era law.
Not only are these writings personal, but some are pretty analytical in demolishing some of the arguments of the retain 377a group and that of their spokesperson Thio Li-Ann. Here are some I have read and found interesting enough to direct all of you to.
The first one (which I happen to like a lot) is written by a heterosexual father of two kids who live in the "conservative" heartlands and who also happen to have a gay couple as neighbours. Read what he feels in his post "The Irrational Section 377A". The "conservative" heartland? I think the diverse and non-monolithic heartland is closer to the truth when I consider the above post along many others written by fellow heartlanders, gay or straight.
Then there is this amusing one written by a straight male Singaporean who claims the reason why 377a is retained is because "Singaporeans are scared sh*tless by gay people". Hmm... I guess there is some truth in it. After all, we usually fear what we do not know or understand. And a lot of Singaporeans either do not know any gay people or even if they do, do not understand them.
Getting nation-wide publicity and readership is the senior Straits Times correspondent Janadas Devan who picked apart Thio Li-Ann's logic in his Saturday "Thinking Aloud" column. An online version is found here.
And adding his voice to his former colleague's thoughts is the former journalist and now division head at NTU's Wee Kim Wee School of Communication and Information Asst Prof Cherian George (husband of journalist Zuraidah Ibrahim) in his post "ST's Janadas Devan exposes Li-Ann's Thiology".
There are too many out there to search out and list. But I think the above four should suffice for now.
Read it at your own leisure and enlightenment.
Meanwhile, like what PM Lee Hsien Loong said in parliament, Singapore will follow (maybe a few decades behind) but not lead in this issue. Hence, Singapore will be the only Chinese-majority country in the world where homosexual male sex is still illegal. China, Hong Kong and Taiwan have already done away with it. So much for progressiveness.
I guess the difference between those countries and Singapore is the amount of credence and clout they allow some religious groups, and of course the percentage of adherents of those same religion in relation to the general population.
And on that note, I would like to direct you to a infamous speech/essay written by the famous British philosopher Bertrand Russell, the 3rd Earl Russell of Kingston Russell in the County of Dorset. Please scroll down and read the section entitled "The Emotional Factor". Of course whether you agree with it or not is entirely your prerogative.
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Addendum 30 Oct 2007:
I would like to include belatedly "Sam's Thoughts". Gosh this straight guy has written so much about repealing 377a and refuting the views and logic of the anti-gay lobby that it puts me, a gay man to shame. But considering the amount of stuff written by gay writers, it's refreshing to let the straight ones take the centre stage and make it known that there are straight people who think likewise.
I like his latest post "The plants in the garden" which attacks the ridiculous fallacy of the so-called "gay lifestyle". I mean like what the hell is the "gay lifestyle"? It's a label coined by the you-know-whos to dump all gays under. Makes it easier for them to target and attack I suppose.
And just in case I gave the impression that NMP Siew was the only one speaking for the repeal, I have to state here that the PAP MP Hri Kumar also lent his legal opinion on the inconsistency of this law.
Text of his speech and others are available at the links below:
To be honest, I have not read Thio's speech and I am not going to. I get pretty frustrated and infuriated by the amount of falsehoods and bigotry she spews all the time on this issue. And unsurprisingly, her speech in parliament today followed the same trend.
Anyway, she has a history of creating lies and assumptions about the "gay agenda" and of tarring all gay men with the same brush which she no doubt obtained from the US conservatives. There is no way to talk sense to this person, much like there is no way to talk sense to an Al-Qaeda suicide bomber who is motivated by the rightness of his or her religious "calling".
Besides NMP Siew Kum Hong and PAP MP Hri Kumar, two other PAP MPs, newbie Baey Yam Keng and senior backbencher Charles Chong, also spoke in support of repealing this section. Unfortunately, I can't find the text to their speeches but here's a video clip of excerpts from it.
I've just finished reading the text of NMP Siew Kum Hong's speech in parliament yesterday and I have to say that I am very very grateful to him for sticking by his principles and making a stand on this issue. He is indeed brave for daring to go against the grain even though he is a heterosexual male who should have no vested interest in this "gay" issue.
The speech may be long, but it brought his point across clearly and calmly. But what really moved me were some comments left by some signatories of the online open letter.
...Sir, let me share with this House, the pain voiced by some signatories of the online open letter.
Madam Mak is a 69-year-old mother of a gay 40-something son. He and his partner have lived with her for over 13 years. She called them "the best things" that had happened to her, in her 69 years in Singapore. She wrote:
"Please tell me, Mr. PM, why are you teaching me to be ashamed of them? If this country doesn't want them, where can they go? Please tell me."
Madam K, a civil servant, wrote:
"my son is gay. He came out to me when he was 22. And I was upset and i blamed myself why is my son gay... i blamed myself all the time. But he is my son. He has not changed since the first day i gave birth to him or the person he is today. I love him for who he is, for what he is. It sickens me that people think suggests that just because he is gay, our family isnt what it is. We are a family. what people do in their private lives shouldnt be an issue to anyone as long as it doesnt harm anyone else. He doesnt know i am doing this but I support this repeal. he is my son and he is not a criminal. if i can accept him, his mother who gave birth to him, who these people who so quickly judge him and condemn him?"...
...And then there are those who leave. If we truly believe that every Singaporean counts, and surely we must when people are our only natural resource, then have we counted the cost of all those who have lost? I will cite only one example, to show how heavy the cost to Singapore can be.
Mr Alex Liang e-mailed me a few months back. He is a former Singaporean who renounced his citizenship and is now a UK citizen. By all objective measures, Mr Liang is someone who would have served the country very well.
We had invested heavily in him. He received a sports award for 3 years running, and was also a humanities scholar. He represented the nation in gymnastics, receiving generous training allowances. He speaks 8 languages, and had excellent academic results.
But the moment he completed National Service, he left for Europe and he stayed there. He had long decided to leave Singapore, as he did not see a viable future for himself in Singapore as a gay man.
Sir, I ask again: what price, this effort to "sign-post" the views of the majority?...
Thank you Mr Siew. Whether the petition moves minds or not, you have my utmost respect and gratitude. As far as I am concern, you have performed your job as a nominated member of parliament as per the NMP's mandate admirably.
An 18-yr old student emailed organisers and pleaded to have the Sunday deadline extended by a day, as she wanted to get her schoolmates to sign when classes resumed on Monday. She brought in 70 signatures. A 53-yr old Eurasian woman, currently living in Johor Bahru, made her way through customs and immigration, just so she could make her submission. A Singaporean living in Hong Kong had his signed petition couriered to Singapore overnight. Law students from a local university canvassed over the weekend for signatures at popular nightspots.
All in all, 2,519 people from all walks of life regardless of sexual orientation signed in support of the Parliamentary Petition to urge the repeal of Penal Code Section 377A over 3 days...
It's been rather amazing reading the raving online response to the new 881 movie by Royston Tan and its accompanying original soundtrack (OST) which sold out in a blink of an eye. And based on what I've read so far, the OST has reached the top position in HMV Asian sales chart and has earned a gold record. Now that's impressive.
I wasn't expecting anything much when I went to watch it last week. After all, I am your typical ang mo pai sort of guy whose Mandarin is atrocious and whose Hokkien... Let's just say that I can only swear in that dialect. And because I had to rely on subtitles most of the time, my head was practically turning left and right the whole time through. Yes, I was seated only a few rows from the screen and hence, have more real estate to cover (neck pain!!).
But while the story was simple, the mood and the music were infectious. Covering the life of two singers who perform in the cultural underworld of the seventh month Hungry Ghost festival's getai (歌台 - song stage), it is one of the rare occasions when Singaporeans can get to hear Hokkien dialogue and music on screen of a mainstream (and not art house) cinema.
Somehow, I think it appeals to the inner rebel of a majority of Chinese Singaporeans who have been forcibly press by the government into the Mandarin-only mould since primary one. Our dialects have practically been made illegal. And the only time we can indulge in it is either with our parents or grandparents who were too old to be coerced, in the karaoke or once a year during the getai performances of the seventh month.
And now with 881, Hokkien is somehow becoming cool again and the cringe-inducing (for me that is) Hokkien songs sung by the bengs and lians in karaoke has taken on a new life that I was never aware of.
As the movie played itself out, I found myself listening to these songs free of any preconception or judgement. And what struck me was the palpable emotions underlying the singing of these often moving songs that focussed on the often difficult lives led by ordinary people, usually poor or underprivileged (read: cham). And for this, I guess we can give credit to Mingzhu Jiemei (明珠姐妹) who provided the singing for the two lead characters that formed The Papaya Sisters. Of course, there were others who contributed to the excellent music as well.
I know some may argue that the music is a bit too modern and the costumes a bit too campy, but I think we can indulge Royston his artistic license to glam it up for the silver screen.
And you know what would be even better? That after this movie, the kitschy getai and its music would somehow become cool again with the general Chinese population. Maybe it can even become an industry in its own right. And every seventh month, people will check online for the listing of their favourite acts and rush all over Singapore just to catch them live.
Now that would probably give seizures to the guys managing the yearly "Speak Mandarin" campaign.
Sans the online checking, I guess this is what our parents and grandparents had to contend with for entertainment when television wasn't that affordable, movies were a rare treat and VCR, DVD, internet, computer games and gaming consoles were not even in existence.
So if you're in Singapore, go and watch it. If you're not in Singapore... well, I guess you'll just have to wait for it to be released commercially in your country. Otherwise your best hope is for it to make an appearance in some film festival in a city near you.
This movie is as Singapore (in a non-government sanctified non-Singapore-Tourism-Board glorified way) as it can get.
Oh, and I just have to mention this. There are three be-gowned drags that play background roles in a few scenes. And their name? HIV, Holy Innocent Virgins. BWAH!!! HA! HA! HA! HA!
To give you a sampling of the music, here are the videos of two of my favourite songs from the movie: 一人一半 and 代替.
Watching the second video and listening to the song made me teared a bit, just like the last scene in the movie before the end credits rolled.
And to get a feel of the movie, here are The Papaya Sisters singing (actually Mingzhu Jiemei singing lah) 野花唔通找. The video of the original singers performing the same version of the song for KTV is available on this YouTube posting.
This is hilarious. Singapore's EDB sends the best of the best of the best to get the $32 million lent to the University of New South Wales for their now defunct campus in Singapore.
Their imitation of the Ah Beng tua ah long's accent really set me off. "Kangadoo!" HA! HA! HA! HA! HA! "Kangadoo Dundee, brother of Cockadile Dundee!" ROTFL! Whee... And they did an brilliant job with the Ozzie accent too.
Now check out their imitation of the Malaysian English accent:
I don't know if this sort of articles will still appear on the Wall Street Journal now that the ultra-conservative republican allied Rupert Murdoch has bought over Dow Jones and with it, the above publication.
But before he can sink his hands into it and mould it to his liking like the other publications in his stable, here is an enlightening article written for the benefit of the international audience. The article is reproduced on my "Stolen Goods" page in case it disappears into some hidden WSJ archive in the near future.
Well, looks like Rupert Murdoch, the arch-conservative world media baron has gotten his hangs on Dow Jones; and with it, the Wall Street Journal (WSJ). Murdoch also owns the ultra-conservative liberal bashing Fox News.
Even though he has said he will respect the editorial independence of WSJ, I am not sure his respect will last that long. After all, he is known for his "interventionist" style of management and his penchant of hiring like-minded (read: conservative or republican) managers and editors to head the different publications that he owns.
Anyway, while the deal is being finalised and papers signed, the Wall Street Journal is working on a story that is closer to home: the impact of continued criminalisation of gay sex on the economy of Singapore and its ability to attract and retain talents.
Read more below. And if you have any experience or know of anyone who do, please click on the picture to contact the person who's working on it now. Let your voice and stories be heard.
I was waiting to use the toilet at Coffee Beans last evening when I saw a magazine sitting on a shelf. Flipping through it to kill time, I came across this quotation from Nelson Mandela which I thought was quite appropriate for the issue I am most concern with, the repeal of Section 377A:
...It was during those long and lonely years that my hunger for the freedom of my own people became a hunger for the freedom of all people, white and black. I knew as well as I knew anything that the oppressor must be liberated just as surely as the oppressed. A man who takes away another man's freedom is a prisoner of hatred, he is locked behind the bars of prejudice and narrow-mindedness. I am not truly free if I am taking away someone else's freedom, just as surely as I am not free when my freedom is taken from me. The oppressed and the oppressor alike are robbed of their humanity.
When I walked out of prison, that was my mission, to liberate the oppressed and the oppressor both. Some say that has now been achieved. But I know that that is not the case. The truth is that we are not yet free; we have merely achieved the freedom to be free, the right not to be oppressed. We have not taken the final step of our journey, but the first step on a longer and even more difficult road. For to be free is not merely to cast off one's chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others. The true test of our devotion to freedom is just beginning...
Pang Khee Teik wrote in Kakiseni.com in his review of "Asian Boys Vol. 2", "Go, not because it's gay theatre, it's great theatre." And I can say that this bold statement is equally true for "Happy Endings - Asian Boys Vol. 3".
I have written about this play in an earlier post, but now, I write with the greatest conviction that this is the best play I have ever seen so far gracing our local stage and one that you have to watch.
Was it perfect? No, but then again, I don't believe that perfection exist and even if it does, it is subjective. Adapting a book ("Peculiar Chris" by Johann S Lee in this case) to a play is not easy and I guess the playwright had quite a challenge dealing with certain characters and placing them in his story arc set in the future.
It is a moving and reflective tale of innocent first love, missed opportunity, growing up, losing the things that you treasured about yourself in your youth to be the person who you want to be as an adult, fighting for who you are and your own path to happiness. Lots of lumps in your throat sort of thing and all of it were played out smoothly and movingly on stage.
The script was great, the direction and realisation was superb and the cast did a fantastic job. Everyone held their own and became the anchor that grounded the story. Of course, some like Karen Tan shone more than the rest.
It was a bit strange to see the character of Johann, the author of Peculiar Chris acted out on stage. Strange because parts of his real life were mentioned and strange because I had the opportunity of meeting him a few years ago in person, in a way having a brief interaction with this person who is now acted by Ben Xiao on stage. And I guess, in a small way, I am part of the larger story too.
There were a lot of scenes that made me tear but the one that moved me a lot was when Koey Foo's uber-macho dragon boating and partying Nicholas confronted his younger effeminate and flamboyant self, realising what he had lost to become this object of desire.
And when I stood up to give my standing ovation, I could feel the tightening of the muscles around my eyes and my nose as I fought back the emotions. I knew that if I let it go, I would be weeping and sniffling like crazy. So powerful was the emotions it stirred in me and I knew that this is a play I have to watch again before it finishes its run on the 29th of this month.
It is that good.
Rarely have I recommended someone to watch a movie or a play, but for this, I was busy last evening mass-SMSing the 200 or so contacts on my mobile phone telling them not to give this play a miss. This is how strongly I feel about it.
And you my readers, regardless of your sexuality, should really give this play a chance. I believe that some of the themes it addresses go beyond sexuality. It is about the human condition and what it means to live, grow and find your own way to your own happiness. Worth every cent of the ticket.
Late last afternoon after waking up from a much needed nap, I received an e-mail from a friend. Sir Ian McKellen had accepted the invitation and went for the 3pm show.
Sir Ian told Ivan he was very moved by the play, that it reminded him of his younger days as an activist, that it gave him a clearer understanding of what it was like living in Singapore as a gay man. He even asked if he should write letters to our leaders... :)
So quoting Pang again, "Go, not because it's gay theatre, it's great theatre." The playwright has outdone himself.
Date: From 11 - 29 July 2007 Time: 8pm, with 3pm matinees on Saturdays and Sundays Venue: Drama Centre Theatre @ National Library (Level 3, 100 Victoria Street)
I am sure by now most Singaporean bloggers or blog readers would have heard about Sir Ian McKellen's famous interview on Channel NewsAsia (see end of post). Unknown to some (including me), he had also said something "controversial" (to use his own words on Channel NewsAsia) on Class 95 FM (as reported on Fridae's feature) and on page 3 of Wednesday's Life! section of the Straits Times.
If you're still unsure, yes, Sir Ian McKellen is gay and a veteran activist who's involved with a few LGBT (Lesbian-Gay-Bi-Trans) organisations and charities in the UK. So it's natural that he's cued in to what's been happening here recently over the debate on repealing Section 377A - "those dreadful laws that we British left behind," says Sir Ian.
I think what's interesting about all this is the timing.
First, you have the statements made a few months ago (and also recently) by MM LKY on the need to progress and in time, decriminalise homosexuality in Singapore. Then you have the moving (as reported by friends and strangers who have seen it) new play by Alfian Sa'at entitled "Happy Endings - Asian Boys Vol 3" which also addresses some of these issues. And just last Sunday, the forum that was organised as part of the play to addressed the issue of repealing Section 377A where one PAP backbencher (Baey Yam Keng, MP for Tangjong Pagar GRC), one NMP (Siew Kum Hong) and a retired former Bishop of the Methodist Church for Malaysia and Singapore (Rev Dr Yap Kim Hao) sat as part of the panel (see previous post).
And now, we have Sir Ian adding his weight and fame to the issue in a very public way. Which I think is sorely needed as no one has either addressed these issues on the broadcast media or been allowed to do so.
Of course some smartass might have a fit and rebuke him for "daring" to meddle with local politics while forgetting that we have the proxies of American evangelical fundamentalists trying to hijack the local agenda here.
But you know what? The issue of public acceptance of homosexuality that has always been used as a reason by the government to retain that law has not changed much.
Of course the term "majority" or "public" is rather vague as no one has really quantified this segment of the population. It's up to different people to draw their own conclusions about the size of this group in a way that suits their agendas. To me, this seemingly "huge" segment of the population is just a very vocal Christian minority that makes the loudest noise. So who's right? That's another topic altogether.
Anyway, while I was having coffee with a friend in Jurong West just now, he brought up a very salient point about the artfulness or stupidity (depending on how you look at it) of this government.
On one hand, you have the "public" not being accepting. And on the other, you have the government (through MICA, home of the censorship board) refusing to allow anything that seemingly portrays "homosexuals" and the "homosexual lifestyle" in a positive light - I'm using the quotation marks here because these are the official terms used by the government and not something I necessarily agree with (especially the all-encompassing term of ignorance, "homosexual lifestyle").
So if all they allow are negative portrayals on broadcast media and ignorant generalisations by civil servants and their mouthpieces, how can the "public" (as if tax-paying and NS-serving gays exist outside this sphere) progress to a point where decriminalisation is not a controversial issue anymore.
Or perhaps repeal is not even part of the plan and the whole exercise of MM LKY's pronouncement and the attendance of MP Baey is just a public relations exercise to show the world that hey! Surprising Singapore is indeed moving forward after bar top dancing *yawn* and Integrated Resort (read: casino).
As long as this government refuses to allow any sort of positive portrayals of gays and allow the very vocal Christian fundamentalist minority to commandeer the debate and agenda, this society is never going to be ready for progress.
But then again, is society's readiness for progress and acceptance really the issue here? The integrated resorts (not one, but TWO casinos might I remind you) was unacceptable to the seemingly large and very vocal segment of the population. And regardless of that, construction works are progressing at full speed in Marina Bay and Sentosa despite our "unreadiness".
I guess it's all a very "chicken and egg" question. Which comes first? In the case of repealing Section 377A, you have the chicken waiting for the egg to be laid before it could be hatch and the egg waiting for the chicken to lay it.
But for the integrated resorts, one of them said "fuck it" and made the first move.
So really, is it all PR or is it the real McCoy?
The interview of Sir Ian McKellen (if you haven't seen it) below:
Yes, I was at the "Peculiar Legislation: 377(A)--Symbol or Statute?" forum organised by Wild Rice in conjunction with their latest play "Happy Endings: Asian Boys Vol. 3".
The panel was made up of the usual people like Rev Dr Yap Kim Hao, Stuart Koe and Alex Au. But what was surprising was the presence of a PAP backbencher Baey Yam Keng who is the MP for Tanjong Pagar GRC (probably kena arrowed by his senior parliamentary colleagues) and NMP Siew Kum Hong.
For those not in the know, Siew has written quite a number of times in support of the repeal and has spoken about it in parliament. (See his conveniently unpublished by Straits Times reply to Andy Ho's article here)
But I was hoping for the likes of NMP and Prof Thio Li-Ann or maybe Asst Prof Yvonne Lee (both from NUS's law faculty), who are both known for their opposition to the repeal of section 377(a), to air their opinions on the issue. At least we would be able to hear both sides of the argument and especially that of religious conservatives (Li-Ann being one of the more out-spoken ones).
Actually I heard that apparently Yvonne was invited and seemed to be keen on attending till she said she had an overseas trip to make and hence could not be there.
Hmmm... fear of lynch mob? =)
Anyway, I was late so I didn't get to catch the earlier part of it but there were a lot of opinions voiced and some insights into how the government makes policy and legislative decisions. So since I was late and there have been quite a few write-ups on it, I will just point you to the various articles.
How very interesting. A 2LT Li Hongyi (son of PM Lee Hsien Loong) who's about to disrupt his NS for further studies sent a letter to MINDEF regarding a superior office (LTA) who has been disappearing from his duties every once in a while. On top of that, he had also allegedly forwarded the mail to almost everyone in his unit, thus incurring the wrath of those above for... I don't know, upsetting the chain of command? In Channel NewsAsia's report, the obfuscating term "contravening orders" was used.
Now I don't know whether he did it out of his own volition or he was "encouraged/instigated" by his peers or some of his men. But now, not only is the superior officer scheduled for a session with the Court Martial, but 2LT Li has also been charged and reprimanded.
I wonder whether this Hongyi is the same "famous" son of LHL who did a rumoured yo-yo performance for his OCS CO's night.
Of course the next question to ask is why the hell did this story make it to the papers? I mean people get charged in the SAF daily and court-martialled once in a while. So what's so special about this particular one?
I guess it's because the public got wind of it and MINDEF felt it had to show that they are not showing any favours to a son on the prime minister. Then again, what is published for public consumption may not always be the full story.
All very interesting. Sure makes great gossip fodder for bored NSFs.
I read "Peculiar Chris" at least a decade after it was first published even though I had heard about it way before that.
I was a book snob and I had never really bothered to pick it up as it was "just another local novel".
When I finally decided to give it go, it had been out of print and not on sale for many years. By some sheer luck, I happened to be at a second-hand book store at Holland Village shopping centre during lunch when I decided to see if they might have it. The answer was a disappointing "no", but they kindly took down my number and promised to call if they locate it. About half and hour after I left, I received their call on my mobile.
Bingo! They managed to dig it out from god-knows-where.
Rushing back to the store, I laid my hands on an old and worn book with a brownish-sepia picture of someone I assumed to be Chris looking downwards at an angle. Opening the cover, I saw a few names scribbled on the first page, it had been through at least two or three owners. Unfortunately, the book at present has been borrowed by someone and hasn't been returned.
At my last Google search (a few minutes ago), someone is selling a used though "like new" copy of the book through Amazon at US$72.16. That's like SGD$109.70!!!
BI-ATCH!! WHOEVER HAS MY COPY, I WANT IT BACK!!!
Of course you can get a cheaper copy at €15, but you'll need to be able to read Italian.
Anyway, the book was an easy but engaging read; I finished it within a day. And though I couldn't identify much with the characters in the story, it somehow resonated with me. It spoke of something that I could somehow identify with - a sort of love/growing-up story of a gay male that was set on this tiny red dot that we call home; moving in its own way. And besides, it is the first of its kind in Singapore no matter its flaws.
A few years later, I was honoured to meet the man who the put the tale to paper the old-fashioned way; no typewriter, no word processor, just good old pen on paper.
Interestingly, he seemed somewhat discomfited by the attention he received from Singaporeans who had read the book and met him in person. I guess it was part of a past he had left behind when he moved to London eons ago where no one knew him or had read his book.
And now, 15 years after it was first published, the book has been adapted into a play by Alfian Sa'at entitled "Happy Endings: Asian Boys Vol. 3". The first performance will be tonight at 8pm. Am I excited? You bet. I have been waiting for it since I heard that it's going to be on stage.
Should you watch it? Of course. It's going to be a gay story with a happy ending. We already have too much of those usual tragic suicidal stuff that comes out of Hong Kong, Taiwan or China.
And even if you're not gay, it's more than just about sexuality. Gay or straight, our yearnings, our hopes, our wounds, our tears and fears are all the same. It all happens on a tiny little red dot.
Besides, this is the last gay play that Alfian will ever write; for the foreseeable future that it. So don't miss it lor.
I came across two interesting sites last night while surfing the 'net. The first is by this guy by the name of Pete Biggadike who used to be with the Royal Air Force (UK) and served in Singapore in the late 40s (I think) and early 50s.
What's interesting about the site are the original black and white photographs he has taken of Singapore back then (look for the links with the name "Singapore" in the above link) and the more current ones which he took when he came back here for a visit in 2001.
The differences are obvious and the poor guy could no longer recognise the country anymore. The only thing that has remained is the street names.
Anyway, it is interesting to see what our little red dot looked like back then and I could faintly recognised some buildings in Sembawang that still existed when I was in navy school.
The second site hosted the pictures and video clips of the recent wedding of DYTM Raja Dr Nazrin Shah, the Raja Muda of Perak (crown prince) and Zara Salim Davidson, now DYTM Raja Puan Besar Tuanku Zara Salim of Perak. It is interesting because for once, you get to see how royal Malay weddings are conducted (much like your ordinary Malay ones) with all the accompanying pomp and pageantry (toned down somewhat for this wedding at the request of the Raja Muda).
Both of them are quite successful academically, Raja Dr Nazrin Shah has a PhD in Political Economy and Government from Harvard and Tuanku Zara Salim has 1st Class Honours in Chemical Engineering from University of Nottingham, and both are also rather successful in their careers.
Well, the Perak royal family (descendants of the last sultan of Malacca) has always been relatively more accomplished, polished and civil compared with some others. And I guess it's only natural that the Raja Muda would marry someone well-educated and accomplished like Tuanku Zara.
Her surname reflects the fact that her father is British, William Davidson who is a lawyer practising in Malaysia.
Incidentally, she also happens to be the great-granddaughter of Sultan Abdul Hamid Halim Shah of Kedah through her mother's side. You can check out the rest of her lineage and personal history at her wikipedia entry.
One thing's for sure is that she is pretty. Check out the wedding at this site.
It would be interesting if Singapore still has its own constitutional monarchy. At least it would make things more glamorous than a colourless and dour "elected" president.
I had heard about this issue first hand a couple of weeks ago but didn't think I should talk about it publicly. But since it has been outed on a weblog and read by a lot of people, I guess I am allowed to post a link to it here.
Conspiracy or what? No one knows. But weren't they bitching about the lack of teachers? Sigh... Poor desperate beggars can't be too picky about their food you know. And what's more, it's an employees' market now. Who would want to be a teacher when employers are going all out to actively recruit employees by dangling juicy carrots? Only those who felt called or are passionate about it. But it seems those folks sitting in the gleaming building in North Buona Vista don't really give a hoot about it, all they care is covering their own posterior.
Anyway, click on the link above and you will soon understand why the word "bureaucracy" and its derivatives developed its negative connotations.
Well, well, well. Oh so quietly, the ministerial pay raise controversy disappeared without even a cloud of smoke (it just wasn't there anymore) with the mention of the "gay issue" at the Young PAP's bash at St James power station on 23 April 2007.
The government needs no public relations company to do the public clean up, all it takes is a short comment on a "potentially divisive" (to the Christian fundies lah) issue by an "influential" genro to distract the people.
Again, let's be measured in our response and not get too excited and start bringing out the boas and rainbow flags way too early. As it is, I've heard that some Christian churches have started an email-your-MP campaign to denounce any move towards liberalisation.
In which case, why don't they start a campaign to criminalise sex outside of marriage, which is considered *gasp!* adultery! Leviticus 20:10 says that both parties involved are to be put to death. Remarrying after divorce? Also a no-no in the bible, see Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19:8-9 and those who do are considered adulterers. And adulterers are supposed to be put to death (see above). Lying? God hates it too babe, see Proverbs 6:16-19. Etc. Etc.
Well I don't see them getting all worked up about the above in all their self-righteousness. Then again, maybe a lot of these church-going self-professed Christian members are guilty of that.
Of course the other theory as mentioned by my friend is that this whole thing is meant to be some sort of diversion from the ministerial pay raise issue. Give the people something to get worked up about and they will ignore the televised parliamentary debate and the bill will get passed quickly. As it is, you hardly read about it in the papers any more - it just stopped quietly with nary a squeak one fine day (I think two or more days ago).
So I decided to see what our local papers had to say about that topic. Turning to page H-4 in the Home Section of The Straits Times, my eyes quickly scanned down to the article in question.
It's interesting to note that the Reuters slant seems to be that the government may be considering decriminalising consensual sex between men, whereas the Straits Times version seems to reinforce the current practice of maintain the law but not proactively pursue enforcement.
So my take? Glacial pace to liberalisation lor. That's what I gathered from the Straits Times article which says a bit about LKY's idea and yet doesn't say that much either; a bit of LPPL here.
You can click on the picture above to read the full Straits Times article that I typed out.
I woke up today to a very interesting bit of news which I have just cut and paste to my "Stolen Goods" blog.
Of course I tend to view it with a bit of caution. I mean, things have been said to that effect before and we know how that went.
I think the most important part is to let it take its course within the hallowed halls of the governing party and we shouldn't make the mistake of pressing the issue too hard. Experience has taught that when we push, they resist. Politics in Singapore is played this way: outright opposition or championing of an issue will not work; you have to work with and through them as opposed to against them if you want progress.
Actually, I feel that things are quietly beginning to change in a positive way. Based on an interesting conversation I had last evening with someone who is in the middle management of... how should I put it... "the industry", things are also improving slowly in quite a few areas within crime and punishment and other social issues. But it's a bit hush hush at the moment so no one can really talk about it.
Do note the word "slowly". It's not going to be a revolution, that's too disruptive. It's going to be an evolution. But the question for me is will I see it to fruition within my lifetime?
Wow... The amount of PR going on these past few days, especially the weekend, is mind-boggling. Pages and pages of articles about the price of good governance and what makes the civil service tick like a well-oiled machine has been dominating the Straits Times.
I can't even begin to imagine the amount of money and effort just to soothe the passage of the inevitable act.
From what I can see so far, the press have been toeing the official line (like they always have and always will) while the majority in the blogosphere have been contrary.
Really, I see no point in ranting and raving about it. Once a bill gets discussed in parliament and spoken about by the grand old man himself, it's as good as law.
At least now we know where the increase in GST goes to.
The board of directors have spoken and voted. The minority shareholders and the employees will just have to grin and bear it or leave. That's the reality. Forget about KPI and that entire performance review thing, it doesn't work here. They say that if we don't like it, we can always vote someone else in during the next AGM. But really, we know how AGMs work here and it's always a foregone conclusion. And knowing how it is, most of the shareholders and employees have very short term memory. By the next AGM, they won't remember a single thing about this.
I find it quite interesting how they raised the spectre of anarchy if they don't get things their way.
"If you don't approve our remuneration, you'll just have to go back to the messy days of being a third-rate third-world nation where nothing works."
Extremism is apparently not the monopoly of religion.
I think there is an important lesson to be learnt by the average Singaporean in all this. Money talks.
Forget about country above self and all that jazz. At the end of the day, it's all dollars and sense. Whoever has the deepest pockets and is willing to pay you more, you go to him.
In this modern age of an almost borderless world when it comes to goods, production and capital, shouldn't labour and expertise go the same way too? Our love and loyalty goes to the highest bidder. If we believe that we can get richer and live a better life in another country, by all means, move there. After all, we are not that indispensable. The management can always import more labour to make up the shortfall.
Roots and ties to this country really mean nothing when money is king.
And now that the pay increase is a done deal, I think it's only fair that we start to demand more from the management. If we want something, by all means, pester them and demand for it. A few million dollars more for much less sleep and free time seems pretty fair to me.